Baldwinsville Man Keeps to Himself, Ends Up Giving Big

When you ask anyone who knew Don Ryder how they would describe him, they all say the same thing; he was a very private and quiet individual, a man who mainly kept to himself. Upon his death in 2015, this private man did something that showed just how much he cared about his community.

When Don died last year at the age of 81, his will directed that his entire estate – 150 acres of land, his home and all of his belongings, valued at approximately $750,000 – be donated to the Donald W. Ryder Fund at the Central New York Community Foundation.

Before he passed away, Don lived alone at his home on the outskirts of Baldwinsville. He was incredibly proud of designing and building his home and barn exactly how he wanted. He spent endless hours each day maintaining his land and taking care of his home. His neighbors, John and Mike Kerniski, described the care he put into his home and land as meticulous – no detail was too small.

“He kept his place very, very neat.” said John Kerniski, Don’s friend and neighbor since the early 1970s. “His house and storage barn were methodically organized. And he was always well-dressed and well-mannered. I think he took pride in being well-presented.”

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Don Ryder’s Army company based out of Fort Dix, NJ

Because of his private nature, not much is known about Don’s life in his earlier years. He mentioned in passing that he served in the Army, and a photo found in his belongings confirmed he trained at Fort Dix Reception Center in 1957. He mentioned that he once owned a stone quarry and paving company in Jamesville, however he never spoke in much detail about his business.

While he may have been private, Don was also described by his neighbors and friends as having a softer side. Only a lucky few were invited to see beyond his guarded exterior. Mike Kerniski, John’s son who helped maintain Don’s lawn in his later years, often stopped to chat with him about goings on in the world and his life.

“I felt like I could talk to Don about anything,” said the younger neighbor. “He often told me that you only live once, so do whatever you think is best, take chances and if you fall on your face, you fall on your face – but if not, you gain so much.”

What many didn’t know was that Don was planning to leave a legacy far beyond just good advice doled out to his closest neighbors. He wanted a legacy that included providing support to charity. When it came time to prepare his will many years ago, his estate planning attorney suggested that he speak to the Central New York Community Foundation. His attorney knew that the Community Foundation could help Don set up a fund that would help local nonprofits, and carefully steward his desire to have the funds help out in specific ways.

“Don’s interests were broad and he was looking for a charity that matched that breadth,” said Jennifer Owens, Vice President, Development & Marketing. “He did a great deal of research on the Community Foundation and gained an appreciation for our commitment to honoring the wishes of those who place their trust in us. Trust did not come easy to Don, but after gaining an understanding of our capabilities and long-standing history in the community, he gained confidence in our abilities to steward his assets as he wished.”

The Community Foundation was well-suited to assist Don with his planned giving. It administers nearly 700 individual funds, each with its own donor-defined purpose and history. The Community Foundation is tasked with continuing to honor the donors’ wishes after they are gone, while addressing the community’s greatest needs as they evolve over time.

Based on his clear direction, the Donald W. Ryder Fund will provide grants to nonprofit

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Don Ryder

organizations for the sole purpose of brick and mortar capital projects – to pay for the construction of new buildings or additions or renovations to existing facilities. Grants from the fund will be awarded through the Community Foundation’s Community Grants program. The Community Foundation awards more than $2.5 million in Community Grants each year to tax-exempt, nonprofit organizations in Onondaga and Madison counties that serve the fields of arts and culture, civic affairs, education, health, human services and the environment and provides leadership and financial support for focused community initiatives in such areas as literacy, higher education attainment and nonprofit capacity building.

“While he always remained a very private person, I came to know Don over the years and admired his principled and methodical approach to his life,” said Owens. “What will stick with me about Don is the generous, warm and funny personality that was just beneath his guarded exterior. He didn’t let many people see his caring side, but he was a generous guy at heart.”

Thanks to Don’s generosity, the Community Foundation will be able to support a number of worthy causes in the Central New York community that are looking to expand or improve their services by enhancing their facilities. He had a generous heart, indeed.

About the Central New York Community Foundation

Established in 1927, the Central New York Community Foundation encourages local philanthropy by supporting the growth of permanent charitable endowments for the betterment of the region.  The Community Foundation is the largest charitable foundation in the region with assets of nearly $190 million. It awarded $9.9 million in grants last year to nonprofit organizations and since its inception has invested more than $135 million in the community. The Community Foundation serves as the steward of charitable legacies for individuals, families and businesses through the administration of nearly 700 funds. The organization also serves as a civic leader, convener and sponsor of special initiatives designed to strengthen local nonprofits and address the region’s most pressing challenges.

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